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Many say that the first impression is what counts, which is why many go out of their way to impress on the first date. To a certain extent it is normal to talk about our skills and qualities, and highlight what is best about each person. However, there are many who lie to hide their reality and make it more attractive. These are the lies guys tell on the first date.
They say not to be jealous or possessive
The first thing boys lie is when they say they are not jealous and that they are not possessive or controlling. It is better to wait for the facts to speak and not the words. A man sure of what he is, does not say it only shows it.
They say they want a serious relationship
It is hardly his first date and he is already saying: “I want a serious relationship that is a real commitment.” It hardly takes hours to meet you and you can see the desperation, but it will be to take you to bed. On the first date is not the time to talk about a serious relationship or not.
His love life
The liar will tell you on the first date that he has already forgotten his past, that he has forgotten all his exes and that he is ready to start another relationship. Surely she still treats some of her ex-partners or even has conflicts with her, so if she wants to fall for you, better run away!
Your social life
Many guys fear that they will seem boring or conceited to us. That is why they often say that their lives are perfect, fun, that they are surrounded by friends and social events. Only a few dare to confess that on weekends they prefer to stay at home.
Watch romantic movies
It is suspicious that you are interested in watching romantic or cheesy movies on first dates. Most men like action or thriller movies. If he insinuates you to go see one of the romantic movies at his house of those that you like, you better think twice, before he just takes you to bed.
Your working life
Boys are generally insecure when it comes to work. They often lie about their job titles or rank in the company. And the most unpleasant ones, they presume how much they earn, as if that interests us. If he does that, better stay away, it’s better than being with someone who considers you an interested party.
Your age
Both boys and girls lie about their age, on a first date. Even if it seems strange, people think that decreasing their age favors them, especially if the boy is five years older than you. If you think about it, it is not good to date someone who is so insecure and who does not accept who they are.
I hardly go out …
“I almost never go out and I have a long time without drinking alcohol”, this is another of his lies on the first date. So chances are, he loves drinking alcohol and hanging out with his friends. Better think about it before being with a guy like that.
