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Society often puts enormous pressures on women: that they have to be mothers, wives, daughters, friends, bosses and always be beautiful … These demands can really break any woman, but not real women. Here are 9 rules of a real woman.
A real woman does not pursue happiness
The pursuit of happiness is the dumbest “sport” and it is very common to see many women seeking happiness. But a real woman ignores these kinds of “sports.” She lives in the present and reality.
The present is the most interesting and important thing for her
Of course, she has plans for the future, but she will not wait for tomorrow: she lives today. She knows that “Losing weight …” or “Finding a perfect man …” are not reasons to waste her life.
Being a real woman is a privilege, and she understands it
She admires and appreciates the fact that she was born a woman. Being a woman is not just about behaving like one. She knows and feels it. Being a real woman for her is not difficult: it is a gift. She cultivates her femininity on all levels: internal (emotions, feelings, thoughts) and external (body, clothing, behavior).
Live at your own pace
When the pace of life is too slow, we cannot enjoy it. When it’s too fast, we don’t have time to enjoy it either. Each of us has our own rhythm of life. A real woman feels it and lives in harmony with it. She handles the events of her life when required and paces the circumstances.
She is focused on her life and being happy
This is not to say that she is selfish, insensitive, indifferent, or cynical. It’s about self-love. She is focused on her life. You never forget your personal space. And despite everything, he is able to support, help and understand others. She never says ‘yes’ if her heart says ‘no’, and she always listens to herself and trusts her feelings.
She doesn’t need a “checklist” to show others
All girls receive this “checklist” in childhood – from parents, teachers, neighbors, relatives and friends. And many are limited to the items on these lists. A real woman doesn’t need them. A real woman has her own life goals; and achieves them. And if your goals don’t meet society’s standards… that’s not your problem. She knows that it is impossible for everyone to be like her. A real woman doesn’t work to get the approval of others. She does it because she loves herself.
She grew up a “good girl”
A true woman put aside being a “good girl” as well as constantly seeking approval and praise from others. She does not ignore the opinions of others about her; but he treats them with leniency. A real woman is not guided by the principle of “what she should do” or “what she should not do.”
Loneliness is a gift for her
A real woman loves and appreciates time when she is alone. She does not try to bring any random person into her life in order not to remain alone. Having time with yourself is good. It is the best time to recover and fill your life with calm and reflection.
Love your age at all times
A real woman benefits from her age. She doesn’t think that doing something at 60 is “too late” or at 20 is “too early.” It is just an excuse for those who use their age to hide fear or internal taboos. A real woman can do everything at any age. That is why he does not regret the things he did not have time to do. You can still do them! She knows that each age has its own beauty, sexuality, and charm.
Does not seek people out of interest
A real woman does not seek people out of interest and is not impressed or dazzled by material things. He knows that the material is temporary and he is always happy with what he has. The important thing for her is respect, love and loyalty. She knows that in the end the only thing left is that and be happy despite the difficulties.
