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In the first half of 2020 Sexyfollie did some surveys of their customer audiences to find out how much the bondage and RPGs are widespread among Italian couples. The results were surprising: about 30% of couples have experienced conscious BDSM with satisfactory results for both.
Bdsm: 30% of couples have had experiences
Bdsm is an acronym that indicates bondage-domination-sadism-masochism and is a rather varied system of role-playing games, which is why many couples practice it without being aware of being part of this world. Sexyfollie surveyed the percentage of Italian couples who had practiced it at least once and the result was in some respects surprising. About the 30% of couples have experienced conscious BDSM in his own relationship and, of these, beyond the 60% continued to have them after the first approach.
Many play domination games only during sexual intercourse, while some have found that it is pleasant to do it even during the day: so here are Whatsapp messages where one gives orders to the other even during normal daily activities and maybe even being at a distance . This type of experience is on the rise and in recent years the market for accessories for BDSM practices, from the softest to the hardest, has been growing.
If it is true that BDSM can be practiced simply by using one’s imagination, it is also true that this must be nurtured over time, and therefore using for example a Bondage and Restriction Set can be really more exciting and engaging. Yes, because a simple erotic game where one of the partners binds the other, for example using a napkin, or blindfolds him, already enters the sphere of erotic role-playing games.
It has been found that in 70% of cases it is men who play the role of submissive or slave. Women love to use bondage tapes on their submissives to tie them up, while men love to shop for their bondage clothing and lingerie slaves. While there is a widespread notion that BDSM is a distorted and perverse erotic activity, it actually is respectful of strict rules in terms of safety and mutual respect. The large BDSM community that exists in Italy and around the world is keen to emphasize that gaming sessions always take place in total safety and consensus.
But how has the success of these practices grown? Many have become passionate about BDSM thanks to the dissemination of books and cinema. Many then found themselves living these experiences within stable relationships in natural and simple way because the desires of one have met those of the other. Communicate and share the same passions it is the key to experiencing sexuality well in a couple and the same is true for a bdsm relationship. What is certain is that couples who experience bdsm with satisfaction are always very complicit and above all, in the end, they are really happy and satisfied and that’s what really matters. Bdsm stands for SSC: sane, safe and consensual.
